Succeed at Dating - Are You Patient Enough to Get From Dating to Relationship?

Published: 31st May 2011
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Do you dread dating? Do you find that it gets you frustrated and wound up when the men you date don't behave as you would expect or suddenly disappear? Do you lose your head when you don't get what you want straight away in a relationship? Patience is the order of the day when dating for several reasons. Just because you want it all now does not mean that you can have it. If you have difficulty keeping your cool whilst dating then you need to read this. Find out why it is so important to be patient if you want to get from dating to relationship.

Dating can be frustrating for so many women. When your man starts off keen, you feel convinced that you're in there but as soon as you start to think relationship, it all seems to fall apart. Often your apparent keenness to ensnare him will put him off and make him run for cover. When he realises that you have gone past dating and already arrived at relationship, he will usually pull back to consider what he wants. If you then go chasing after him, you are likely to blow it. However frustrated you are, you are going to have to stay cool and hang on in there if you want to make it permanent. You have to take things slowly so you don't scare him off, but this will also work to your advantage.

You see, many women jump into relationships without looking properly to see who the man is. They allow themselves to fall hard and fast before they find out that their prince is really a frog. If you take it slowly there is less of a chance that you will make a serious mistake in your choice of partner and end up letting him either break your heart or take advantage of you.

If you are the type of woman who lets a man see you getting freaked out by dating and his actions then this is also a big mistake. When he doesn't know you, he is going to be much less sympathetic to your displays of negative emotions. If you can't stay cool, he won't hang around to help you through your jitters. He is looking for someone who is happy with herself, and him, and the way things are. If you can't be patient; if you are always looking for more from him; or if you are constantly moaning because things are not the way that you want, then he will think you are unappreciative and hard to please and will not want to spend time with you.

Many promising relationships don't work out because many a woman cannot be patient - she has premature expectations of a relationship and wants it now. It is far better in relationships to let your man take the lead so he thinks that it is his idea to move the relationship on. Obviously this takes patience on your part but in any case you can't move on before he is ready. If you want to get from dating to relationship, then patiently observe where he is leading you. Get him to want to move the relationship forward by keeping it fun and letting him know how much you enjoy the time you spend with him.

To succeed at dating and find a strong, loving relationship, you need to understand what really makes a man feel good. There is a certain type of woman that a man is irresistibly attracted to. She knows how to captivate him and communicate with him to draw him close and get him to respond in the ways that she wants. You can learn to be the type of woman that men adore and never want to leave. You can also visit my website for more information on how to get from dating to relationship.

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